Contrary to popular belief, the world has not opened up and swallowed me whole. Despite my silence in this space, I’ve been out and about, alive and kicking, moving and shaking, grabbing life by the horns (or whatever).
I’m not so delusional to think that my absence from the internet has ruined anyone’s life. But my mom said that she misses my blog. So I’m saying hello.
A few weeks ago, I completely paid off my credit card – and promptly cut it up into little pieces. For me, a credit card has been a crutch to help me live beyond my means, and I just grew tired of having my money already spoken for whenever I would get a paycheck. I can’t tell you how freeing it was when I got paid the other day to be able to choose where to put my money – which, for now, means throwing cash at paying off my car. I’m not completely out of debt yet, but after years of feeling like I just couldn’t make any progress, in the last few months I’ve started to see a light at the end of the tunnel.
Now, of course, not having a credit card has some downfalls. I can’t purchase anything that I don’t have the money for RIGHT NOW. This means that I’ve had to say no to several travel opportunities, which is tough for me. For the past two years, I’ve rarely stayed in the same place for more than 10 days at a time, and spent a lot of money flying to see the people who are important to me. But for now, those days are over – and the only tickets I can buy are more of a “sacrifice” than a “given.”
But as you may recall, commitment means freedom, and in the past few months of generally staying put, I have been growing some friendships here in Denver. I’ve been social – maybe even too social (for this introvert) – and am learning a new work/life balance.
When walking outside to my car this morning, it was 55 degrees and smelled like spring. Supposedly, March is Denver’s snowiest month, so we’re not out of the woods yet, but… I can’t tell you how hopeful that scent of dry dirt was.
Dry dirt = hope. Someday I will write poetry.
I’ve embraced a “sort of vegan” diet as an experiment for a month. So far, I feel like hell and would wring a cow’s neck for a slice of cheese. Initially, I gave up meat, dairy, and eggs, but have reclaimed eggs with a vengeance, so I am definitely not living a full-on vegan lifestyle. I feel very scatterbrained and willy-nilly about this whole thing, and while I recognize that our food system is scarily screwed up, I think that there are a lot of ways to “vote with your dollar” and make better nutritional choices. I’m not sure that I’ll stick with the whole “no meat, no dairy” thing – but I’m giving it a few more weeks to see how I feel.
I’m late to the party on this, but Whitney Houston died. What a tragic, senseless ending to a life of a woman who, at one point, had everything stacked in her favor. Didn’t we almost have it all, Whitney? Ugh. It’s just so cliché, and so sad. I ran across this isolated track of her vocals on “How Will I Know.” She was incredible.
If you’re wondering about how Toad is doing, you should know that she fearlessly and ferociously chased a raccoon off our front yard the other night. She is a champion.
For those of you who I’ve been out of touch with, I’m sorry. I probably owe 80% of my friends some kind of personal communication. Life is different these days, and I’m just trying to find my stride. In the meantime, know that I’m thinking of you (even if I’m not buying a plane ticket to see you), and wishing that everyone that I loved could live in the same place.