Why I’m doing what I’m doing
Are you stressed? Aggravated? Fed up? Worn out?
Call Annie Parsons – the Bullshit Exterminator.
This is what one of my beloved co-workers called me today – a moniker I proudly accept.
Listen, life is too much these days. I’m inordinately stressed at work. I’m in the midst of an insurance battle over my roof. I cannot for the life of me get a single lawn service company to call me back. Foxy came back from our weekend backpacking trip with a “small wound” that had to be treated at the vet. Projects just keep not getting finished. My inbox is overflowing, my patience is dwindling, and today, I couldn’t take it anymore.
Shaky rage-voice was used. Emails went flying. I put my foot down. I took action. In essence, I exterminated the bullshit.
I am *thisclose* to teetering off the edge – so it’s a good thing that I leave on the Colorado Trail in just 12 days. I am so ready – so so so so ready – to close my computer.
Am I ready to be alone in the mountains for over 4 weeks? Who knows. But it’s happening – and it’s happening soon.
To be clear, my lack of emotional bandwidth is not solely about my job. For most of us, work is stressful – I’m not unique in this regard. It’s about so much more than work.
The further I grow into being a so-called grown-up, the more I feel myself bucking against the absolute nonsense that “adulthood” tends to bring with it. Some days I feel that I’m losing the person that I once was, the person that I want to believe that I still am, the one with dreams and passions and gumption and guts. I love Annie the Risk Taker. What happened to her? She’s been bound and gagged by what others have told her is “reality”: worst case scenarios and doomsday forecasts and fiscal cliffs and snowballs of disppointment and never, ever getting your hopes up.
But I know better than that.
It’s time to steal my life back. It’s time to remember all of the things that used to make me come alive, that used to make my heart skip a beat.
Who knows if walking alone into the mountains is the way to do it? But it seems worth a shot.