Contentment
Bouncing back and living forward
It is a truth universally acknowledged that we can’t always date who we want. I’ve been both the rejector and the rejectee – and even if it’s mutual, it’s still the pits. Blame it on timing or distance or one person deciding that they’re just not that into the other; whatever the circumstance, love can…
Give a Hoot in 2015
I have a confession to make. I didn’t end 2014 well. I spent the last three months of the year lost in my own head, unable to focus on anything or anyone except myself. Some stressful situations got the best of me – and while my circumstances were certainly worthy of some level of anxiety,…
More
“Do you find the tension between seeking contentment and desiring more, difficult? I do, certainly.” Those were the closing lines of an email I received last week from a woman who has lived more life than I – and just like that, she so concisely distilled my entire life’s dilemma. Perhaps you relate? Contentment in…
The steady season
Yesterday, a relatively new acquaintance asked me, “What do you want to do with your life?” She was asking about my career path, I suppose – to which my answer is always a shoulder shrug. I’ve never been one with a bullseye plan for my professional life – I just try to do my very…
The fear of scarcity
I have recently come to the realization that I am a hoarder. Now, please don’t confuse “hoarder” with “packrat.” I do not live in squalor. I don’t stack my living room floor with old newspapers and crocheted doilies and ashtrays. I regularly take sacks of clothing, shoes, and books to Goodwill. I shred and recycle…
Why commitment equals freedom
Something really remarkable has happened: I’ve stopped thinking about moving. I know that this is probably foreign to some people, but I have entertained the idea of moving – no matter where I’ve lived – for at least the past 5 years. When I was living in Seattle, I was thinking about moving to Nashville. …
Itty bitty tidbits
Something I Googled this morning: Is kennel cough contagious to humans? Because – bad news – Kodi has kennel cough. And also – bad news – it is. – – – – – – – – First, “The Pianist” came from Netflix. Then, “The Piano” came from Netflix. What in the world. Why did I…
Something wonderful is about to happen
I never thought the day would come, but here it is: I have officially outlived Kurt Cobain. Today is my 28th birthday. I’ve waited ALL YEAR for August 4th, and it’s finally here. Not to make a big deal out of it or anything, but… okay fine. I am the birthday girl! Yippee! I’m so…
More than enough
It’s Friday, and there’s no humidity in Colorado, and last night I walked 10 miles instead of my normal 7. I’ve hung out with friends (I have friends!) the last two nights in a row, and tomorrow I’m taking my family on a date. It’s a fantastic hair day and I’m caught up on “Lost”…
Keep walking
There are a lot of days that I don’t feel like blogging. You would think that with my complete absence of a social life in a city where I am totally anonymous, I would have all the time in the world to come up with universe tilting posts – but no. Sometimes life is just…